Anonymous asked: How would you suggest I maintain my faith, outside of going to church? I already read the Bible and "pray" everyday, but I feel like my prayer has gotten somewhat superficial and repetitive, and I was wondering if you had any tips as to how to reconnect with God/maintain a better relationship with Him?
Sure!
Going to church is an awesome opportunity to meet with and learn about God, but one of the biggest reasons for it is to meet with other believers. Church is supposed to be a community of people who love each other and love God. I think one of the biggest ways to connect with God is to connect with His people. Find a church you love and get plugged in. Find people in the church you get along with and who would be good influences. Most churches have “small groups” that meet together to talk about God and to live life together.
One of the biggest reasons people get pulled away from God is because of bad relationships.
So find some Christian friends; or if you have some, try to deepen your relationship with them. Pray with them, talk with them, have fun with them.
Other ways:
-Find some good podcasts. (Mark Driscoll, Andy Stanley, R. C. Sproul all have some rockin podcasts)
-Serve people. Maybe it’s in children’s church, or feeding the homeless, or working at a domestic violence shelter. I can not express how important it is to serve, love and minister to other people.
-Keep a journal. Write your prayers in it.
-Good Christian music. Find anything that you like that is encouraging. I like Enter the Worship Circle, The Welcome Wagon, Sufjan Steven’s Seven Swans, So Long Forgotten, John Mark McMillian, Jon Foreman and many more.
-Read books. There are tons of terrible Christian books out there so be careful. I enjoy C. S. Lewis, Donald Miller, and Shane Claiborne.
-Find something you truly, purely, enjoy. God shows up in strange places, and very often in the things we were created to enjoy. Maybe it’s poetry, or art, or music, or film, or sex with your spouse, or nature, or tacos.
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Understand at the end of the day that God wants to know and love you. Ultimately it’s God who draws us to Himself; we just have to be willing purposeful in setting time aside to meet with Him and study the Bible.